If you are someone who knows a person who has experience trauma or abuse, you may not be aware of the best ways to engage with them and express your concern and support. Keeping some things in mind with regard to this is important. First and foremost it is important that you establish a trusting relationship by showing empathy, indulging in active listening while respecting their defenses. Excessive questioning or trying to enquire about details can be unnerving for the individual and these must be avoided. Respect the boundaries that they have in place before you take the next steps:
Certain Dont’s to keep in mind
Certain Do’s